Interpersonal harmonization,
(though occurring, for the most part, at an unconscious level)
is essentially a musical process.
If a clairaudient were to listen to the sound of an argument
being resolved into harmonious agreement,
he would hear discordant ‘music’ being transformed into concordant ‘music.’
When one person deliberately harmonizes his personality with the personality of another,
notes and chords change.
Consciously, the harmonizer may simply be thinking about saying agreeable words
or doing agreeable things,
but such doing and saying is ‘music’,
and affects the harmony of the relationship.
On a subtle level, we are all aware of the changing sounds playing out in our relationships.
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